There is no escape from the out pour of women and men revealing their past and on-going suffering from being a sexual abuse SURVIVOR- bravely, and one-by-one, new revelations of pedophilia are being exposed every day on outlets such as Twitter. Well, I say GOOD, for I am GLAD for those stepping out of FEAR!!! Today’s social media platforms can be an outlet to express yourself when those around us are not able to just LISTEN!I say expose them all, and this includes FAMILY members as well!! It does not matter if it has been five, ten, thirty years or more because now is the time to HEAL and reveal!
Now with that being said…There is confusion for some people as to why so many victims all of a sudden are “just now speaking out” about these transgressions done towards them in their past. The other day at “work”, two adults were having a conversation in regards to this subject matter after watching the nightly evening news, when the latest pedophile was placed on blast mode for his possible illegal sexual acts. In their disbelief, so many victims of sexual abuse appeared a bit ludicrous but bazar to just now speak up. The number one question that continued to circle the discourse was, “why now, why wait so long to speak out???”
Because I’m a SURVIVOR of child sexual abuse, I felt the need to speak out for ALL of the SURVIVORS who are still afraid to speak their truth today! Every SURVIVOR has their own story, and it's only up to them to face this demonic energy when it feels “right” for them!!!! Therefore, there is no right or wrong way on how to reveal what has been hidden from our family and friends for however long of a time! We hold on to such secrets in order to protect the people around us. A lot of the time we’re unable to reveal these disheartening circumstances may be due to the fact that our parents have their own separate on-going, unresolved issues within themselves, leaving it is difficult to communicate with them. To reveal the disgust that had occurred, and for some, god forbid unending, was one of the most single and unfavorable incident that I had to address in my life thus far. The feeling of nausea, anger, and anxiety has subsided over time by with the more I speak out about being a SURVIVOR of child sexual molestation. But. The incredulity around those who have made the decision to stand-up for themselves "just now", which is more than distressing to admit, will not be accepted in and around my presence!! I won’t tolerate your idealism on what it is like to be a SURVIVOR of sexual abuse if you haven’t experienced this trauma yourself firsthand! So, do me a favor and STFU and just LISTEN! We don’t want your “I’m sorrys” either, because for those of us who are still here on this planet growing as SURVIVORS We have gained much wisdom out from torment! We have become proficient in loving self when we thought that no one else could! We have learned to turn away from drugs, alcohol, and/or whatever harmful outlets to forget! We know how to identify all manifestations of abuse that reside within both children and adults! There are so many avenues after being a victim of sexual abuse, and then tapping into your SURVIVOR mode! Thank you to all of the SURVIVIORS who has opened the gates to PROSPERITY and HEALING! For those who are still afraid to speak out, do me this favor and repeat “I LOVE MYSELF” every got dam day in the mirror!!!! Oh, and for the people who are still in denial about what has been occurring on your nightly news channel about the on-going sexual abuse allegations- According to adult retrospective studies, 1 and 4 women and 1 and 6 men were sexually abused before the age of 18. “This means there are more than 42million adult survivors of child sexual abuse in the U.S. 73%of child victims do not tell anyone about the abuse for at least one year. 45% do not tell anyone for at least 5 years. Some disclose never- children of every gender, race, ethnicity, background, social economic status and family structure are at risk. No child is immune.”